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Spiritual Wholeness

Am I Under Attack—or Just Overwhelmed? Spiritual Warfare and Personal Responsibility with Joel Muddamalle

Episode Notes

Have you ever wondered if there’s something spiritual happening beneath what you’re carrying?

You’re doing the work.
You’re praying.
You’re going to therapy.
You’re trying to take responsibility.

And still… something feels off.

In this episode, Dr. Alison sits down with Theologian Joel Muddamalle to explore spiritual warfare — not through fear or sensationalism, but through clarity and discernment.

Together, they examine:

  • How the enemy works through systems, structures, and misaligned desires

  • The difference between personal responsibility and spiritual opposition

  • Why obsession with darkness is just as unhelpful as dismissing it

  • How to stay grounded in Christ’s victory rather than panic

This conversation reframes spiritual warfare as something far more ordinary — and far more hopeful — than we often imagine.

Not demon hunting.
Not blame shifting.
But cultivating wholeness.

Because the center of the Christian story is not darkness.
It’s restoration.

If you’ve ever felt confused about this topic — or unsure how to integrate faith, mental health, and spiritual reality — this episode offers grounded wisdom for everyday life.

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Join the 80,000+ soul menders in our email community and receive weekly reflections and gentle practices here.

Learn more about Joel Muddamalle’s work.

Order The Unseen Battle.

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Transcript:

I actually want us to frame spiritual warfare within the context of household

rebellion, of household conflict, of dysfunction, and relationship challenges.

Enemy loves to work in systems and structures, loves to work through neutral things

that can become ultimate things in order to misalign your affections.

Hey everyone. And welcome back to this week's deep dive episode of the Best of You

podcast. I'm so glad you're here with me this week and every week. I love hearing

from you. I love getting your feedback. Today's episode came directly out of so many

questions I've heard from so many of you these past few years. Have you ever

wondered whether there's something spiritual going on underneath what you're carrying?

Like you're doing the work. You're praying, you're trying to take responsibility for

your choices, you're trying to regulate your nervous system, get enough sleep, have

the hard conversation, set boundaries, go to therapy. Maybe you're doing all the

right things and still something feels off. Maybe it's anxiety that spikes out of

nowhere. Maybe it's a pull toward isolation, like you just want to disappear. Maybe

it's discouragement that doesn't match the moment. Maybe it's a kind of internal fog

or oppression that makes it hard to access hope. And then you wonder, is this just

me? Is this my brain? Is this my body? Or is something else happening here?

Today, we're going to talk about something that can get sensationalized really fast

or sometimes dismissed. entirely. And that's spiritual warfare, what my guest today

calls the unseen battle. And I want to say this up front. My goal in this

conversation is not to make you afraid and it's not to make us hyper -focus on

darkness. That has never been my goal. If anything, I err toward the other extreme.

Because for many people, spiritual warfare has been taught in ways that create panic,

superstition, and shame. And for others, it's been dismissed so thoroughly that you

have no framework for naming the very real reality. of evil, whether it's relational,

whether it's systemic, whether it's spiritual and how it impacts our lives. So what

I'm aiming for today is clarity, groundedness, and discernment. We're not after demon

hunting, you know, where everything is a demon. We're not after this other extreme

that nothing is spiritual, right? We're looking for a wise middle. ground.

Together, we're going to approach some of the following questions. When is it helpful

to consider spiritual warfare as part of what you are facing? And when is it not

helpful? When does spiritual warfare language become a way to bypass grief or bypass

accountability or even bypass mental health care or even to blame shift like the

devil made me do it instead of owning our choices and doing the work that is ours

to do? And we're going to talk about practices that are simple. and biblical,

nothing weird, nothing performative, but ways to engage spiritual resilience that

actually help you on a Tuesday afternoon when your brain is spiraling and your heart

feels tired. One of the things I hope you'll hear throughout this conversation is

this. The center of the Christian story is not darkness. It's Jesus.

It's not fear. It's not obsession. It's not hype. It's the steady reality of

Christ's victory over death and the invitation to live from that place with wisdom

and courage. Now, I am so thrilled to introduce you to my guest today. It's Joel

Muddle Molly. He's a theologian, a Bible teacher, and the author of a new book

called The Unseen Battle, Spiritual Warfare, The Three Rebellions, and Christ's Victory

Over Dark Powers. Joel serves as the director of theology and research at Proverbs

31 Ministries, and he's also the theology in residence for Haven Place Ministries.

You can find him online. He's always giving really thoughtful and careful biblical

scholarship, and he helps Christians make sense of big theological questions in a way

that's accessible. and grounded. In The Unseen Battle, Joel offers a framework for

understanding spiritual warfare that's rooted in Scripture, tracing themes through

Genesis, Deuteronomy, and into the New Testament, while also cutting through the noise

of modern sensationalism. He talks about the spiritual story behind fragmentation and

division and why the Spirit of God relentlessly pursues. connection. And that piece

matters to me deeply because as you know, if you've been here for a while, so much

of my own work is about healing disconnection. Disconnection from ourselves,

disconnection from God, and disconnection from each other. And if there's an unseen

battle at all, one of the most consistent themes you'll see is that the forces of

darkness want to isolate you while God moves toward us in love through truth,

through connection, and through a steady invitation back into wholeness. So today,

we're going to explore spiritual warfare in a way that's biblical, responsible, and

emotionally honest. And it's also really practical. So if you've ever felt confused

about this topic, if you've ever been harmed by the way it was taught, if you've

ever wondered whether you're fighting the right battle, if you're simply trying to

make sense of evil and suffering without losing your grounding, this conversation has

something for you. I'm so thrilled to bring you my conversation with Joel Matamali.

I was just so thrilled that you wrote about this topic because A, you're so

biblically literate and so scholarly and yet so accessible.

So that's already hard. And then again, and you set the book up with the opening

quote with exactly what I think so many of us who want to talk about this topic

with what our concern is. And I want to read it to anchor our conversation because

it's a quote from C .S. Lewis. I think it's from the Screwtape Letters. Is that

right? It is. Yes. And it's exactly, I think, why this can be, it's such an

important topic to tackle, but why it can be hard because not that many people are

doing it well. So here's what Lewis says. There are two equal and opposite errors

into which our race can fall about the devils. One is to disbelieve in their

existence. The other is to believe and to feel an excessive and unhealthy interest

in them. They themselves are equally pleased by both errors. And I love this.

This is so classic Lewis. And hell, a materialist or a magician with the same

delight. Yeah. I mean, that's such a perfect. And then your book is really trying

to thread that needle. Yeah. Absolutely. It really is kind of, and what Lewis was

observing, I think we're seeing in full kind of fruition today, you know? And so

like, for me, it's like, wait a minute, there is at times this obsessive tendency

to be so consumed by the things of the supernatural realm and kind of hidden

knowledge and all of that. And then at other times, it's almost like, hey,

we're super great. with everything to do with the cosmic Christ, but we don't want

anything else beyond that. Any other parts of the mystery and the spiritual reality

of the Christian life is almost, the big technical term is demythologized. We want

to demythologize that, and yet I think we find ourselves in a place of

vulnerability, and that vulnerability is what is so terrifying, and the enemy loves.

absolutely loves both our obsession and our neglect. And so really, Allison, this

book was just kind of something that I felt it's a byproduct of my PhD

dissertation. So I spent, you know, six years really studying and researching, but

really a deep conviction that this is a topic that matters. It shouldn't be held

exclusively for the ivory towers of academia. This is something that matters for the

mom who is in the carpool. you know, um, for the dad who's trying to make sense

of, um, you know, I'm, I'm, this is my life. Like I've got teenage sons, you know,

and we're trying to navigate so much, uh, of just their life and their culture and

the music and, um, the things that, you know, they are drawn to and yet asking

this question. is this actually going to be good for your soul over the long haul?

It might be immediately pleasant for you, but if it's destructive over the long

haul, then we want to be aware of that. And so this book was kind of aimed at

both of those things, really to retrieve awareness and a healthy perspective of the

reality of a cosmic war that we're all a part of. So, Joel,

you're kind of touching on... That's immediately what I want to start off with. I

want to get in later in the episode into some practical ways we can delineate.

Because in my work, and I know you're very familiar with this, with your own work

on the Therapy and Theology podcast and in other veins, but sort of what's my

responsibility versus what's spiritual warfare? So we're going to get into that for

the listener. Because I think sometimes there's both two things going on.

I know that in my work as a therapist, especially in really traumatized populations

where there's just been incredible evil that is very overt,

right? That's where it's like you have to name something as evil. There's no

pretending, right? And I think that's something that some of my listeners,

a lot of the therapists who are listening, a lot of folks in ministry, like, no,

we... know, there's no kind of sugarcoating some of these realities,

right? And there is also a process of healing that requires human agency and human

choices that I have to make, right? It wasn't my fault, but it is now my

responsibility. That's kind of the needle I want to thread. But before we get into

those practicalities, what do you mean by spiritual warfare and what do you not

mean? Yeah, that's such a great question. I kind of am a story guy. So in my area

of kind of theological study, it's a study called biblical theology. And so I really

care deeply about the Old Testament and the New Testament, the relationship to each

other. And so I think it's a real tragedy when it's like, let's skip past the Old

Testament passages. Let's just get to the red letters of Jesus. And then it's like,

wait a minute, we do know that Jesus is actually reliving the story of Israel. of

the Old Testament throughout the, I mean, that's the whole point of the Gospels is

that Jesus is faithful in all the ways that Israel is faithless. And so like in

this vein of biblical theology, I think I want to start with what is the story of

Scripture? You know, like what is that kind of one sentence? And this is a quote

from Jim Cress, who we both know and, you know, are friends with. And Jim has this

idea that Something can be simplistic, but far from, something can be simple, but

far from simplistic. So this is a simple statement, but it's far from simplistic.

And so the story of scripture is simply about a good father who happens to be the

cosmic king of heaven and earth, who's determined to have his family back together.

A good dad, who's the king of heaven and earth. who's determined to have his family

back together. And then this is all the parts that are far from simplistic or far

from simple. It's like, okay, we've got a father who's also like a royal king of

the cosmos. And then how did the family get divided? Like how did the family first

get lost and separate from each other? And so in that, I actually want us to frame

spiritual warfare within the context of... rebellion, of household conflict,

of dysfunction, and relationship challenges. And so what we find throughout Scripture,

really, I think, is that spiritual warfare is presented in kind of three categories.

And this gets into a little bit of nerdy Greek and Hebrew stuff, but the term for

household in the Old Testament is bayith. And the term for it in the New Testament

is oikos. And Paul uses oikos terminology all the way throughout Ephesians to talk

about the household. And so this is Ephesians 2, 18 through 22. But both of these

words in the original languages have what's called three domains, kind of three

categories that they are working in. And it is one is a kingly idea that there's a

royal kingship and kingdom that's connected to it. Second is priestly.

It has to do with the temple. And third, the nuclear family. It has to do with

like moms and dads and children and extended family. Like in the West,

I think at times we can be a bit disconnected. from the concept of extended family.

I'm Indian. For us, the extended family is incredibly important. My first cousins,

I don't refer to them as first cousins. I refer to them as my siblings. They're my

younger brothers and my younger sisters. And that's kind of like the nuclear family

that we're thinking about. And what's so fascinating to me is that the enemy loves

to work in these three domains to create deception. in order to divide, which

ultimately leads us perfectly into a place of destruction. And oftentimes, it's self

-destruction. And so if you think about it, it's like our priestly vocation.

People who follow Jesus, what does it mean to be a church, you know, the part of

the church? And you think about it from a kingly standpoint, like our vocation and

responsibility on earth, you know, whether it be from a standpoint of what we do as

our jobs or how we engage with the community at large. And then from a nuclear

family standpoint, you know, like the amount of broken families, broken relationships,

deception, deceit, divorce, and we can go through all of it. These are all evidences

of a real enemy who's working in and through systems and structures to create chaos.

And my basic belief, Allison, is that the Bible has the most coherent answer to all

of these challenges that are present. Like there's a path not to avoid all of this,

but to get through it and really to recover wholeness. And you know this, the Greek

word therapio. It has in mind, and this is the word that's used of Jesus all

throughout the New Testament of his healing ministry. It has in mind recovering

wholeness. And what does it mean to be a whole human? I would categorize into kind

of three areas. It is your emotional well -being. It is your spiritual well -being

and it's your physical well -being. Your emotional, spiritual, and physical well -being.

And spiritual warfare often happens emotionally. It happens spiritually. That's right.

And it happens physically. And so that's why I think it's kind of important to have

a framework in kind of those categories to see how the enemy is kind of being

deceptive in those places. It flows throughout all of it.

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As someone who firmly knows there is a spiritual battle,

there's spiritual warfare. And also as someone who spends a lot of time trying to

help people find their own responsibility within their challenges. What wisdom do you

have for us in terms of figuring out how we discern what is spiritual warfare?

Maybe, you know, what is spiritual warfare? What isn't? And what is helpful to me?

Because sort of one extreme is the there's a devil hiding around every corner.

There's a devil hovering over my kids at my marriage. And to put all of our

attention on that. back to the C .S. Lewis quote, to kind of be looking for the

devils everywhere, which can lead to a sort of paranoia, which can lead to stuff I

don't have control over, right? That can be not helpful, which can also lead,

and we'll get into this, to an abdication of my own responsibility. Maybe some of

this is I'm not taking care of my body or I'm not doing what I need to do,

right? All the way to the other extreme, which we also see in the materialistic,

scientific of... I see in psychology and what prompted me to kind of blend just,

just to your point, you and I are two sides of the same coin. I left a. a

secular psychology program and added a joint PhD with psychology and religion because

I was like, this is not all just science. Like this is not just all changing your

thoughts and becoming a better robot. Like there's other stuff going on here,

right? Two things can be true. And so, but so the other extreme being like, it's

all just reductive. It's all just behavior modification. It's all just changing our

thoughts. It's changing our patterns. Like what's the healthy middle ground as people

of faith who, understand there's a spiritual realm and also are increasingly

understanding, and I know you share this with me, that there's a lot of our own

kind of what we're learning about the nervous system and learning about how we care

for our own souls and how we tend to our own lives and our own families that is

ours to focus on. Does that make sense? Yeah, 100%. You know,

I'm a bit obsessed. We can blame our dear friend Lisa Turkers for this. I'm a bit

obsessed with the Eden story. And really, you know, this is an interesting thing,

Allison. I think that our anthropology has to have a starting spot. So anthropology

comes with the Greek word anthropos, which just means humanity. And so it's like,

where do we get our understanding of humanity? And in some kind of Christian

religious traditions, Often I think functionally what ends up happening is our

anthropology starts with Genesis 3, which is the fall, right? And I actually don't

think this is the right place to start. In fact, we should start where the Bible

starts. And the Bible starts in Genesis 1 and 2. It starts with the ideal of

humanity. It starts with the vocation of our first parents, Adam and Eve, and how

they were supposed to work and function and live in this Edenic garden. And then

when we understand the ideal of humanity, we can actually rightfully make sense of

the tragedy of what happens with the fall. And so I kind of... a little bit from

traditional systematic theologians when they refer to the image of God being broken

at the fall. I don't believe that the image of God was broken at the fall. I'm

following a theological bioethicist, a guy named Dr. John Kilner, who wrote a great

book on this. And what Kilner kind of suggests, which I follow, is this idea

that... the fall, the image of God is not broken. Humanity is broken. And the image

of God is a gracious gift that is bestowed upon us. And that gift comes with a

status and a standard. So the status is irrevocable. If you're a human,

if you're born, you have the status of an image bearer of God. That status requires

a standard that we are to live up to. Now, because humanity is broken, we can no

longer live up to that standard, which is why it's necessary for Jesus to come, the

empowerment of the Holy Spirit. This is the story that we're kind of being told. So

when we go back to the Garden of Eden and we look at Adam and Eve, who are made

in the likeness and the image of God, those two Hebrew words, likeness and image,

are demut and shalem, and they're used throughout ancient Near Eastern literature to

refer to children of royalty, which I think is such a fascinating... indication that

prior to adam and eve ever doing anything they receive a gracious gift from the

lord which is the image of god as an indication that they are royal children of

the great king of heaven and earth now how do we determine what is our own agency

versus spiritual warfare and all this it all actually all goes back to the garden

of eden in this god gives adam and eve the boundaries it's like you know a word

that we love like hey you can do everything, all of this, you can eat of all the

fruit, this one fruit you must not eat. And then, by the way, you're to have

creativity. I don't know if we've ever really thought about the vocation of Adam and

Eve in Eden. They were to be creative. They're supposed to not just build a

monastic society with walls. They're supposed to go out and into the world, spreading

the image of God out. And in light of all of this, They were to be aware.

This is where discernment comes involved, especially with spiritual warfare. They're to

be aware of what was given to them in a holy vocation to accomplish,

but then also to understand what was not within their control, what was not given

to them. And spiritual warfare often comes in the place of compromised discernment.

It is a suggestion that we have to take for ourselves. because of a deep -rooted

distrust that maybe God won't provide for us, or maybe the world is not going to

work out the way that we want it to, and so now I have to lean into my own

power, my own ambition, my own ability, and I have to take for myself.

This gets theological. In Genesis 3, 6, and elsewhere,

you find a repeated pattern, and the pattern is this.

desire, and take. In Hebrew, every time you see the two phrases of see desire,

which can sometimes be synonymous as one, combined with the verb to take, it's

almost always negative. It's almost always negative. Adam and Eve, see of the fruit,

they desire of the fruit, and they take. of the fruit. In Genesis 6,

you've got this odd passage of the sons of God who I believe were angelic beings.

And in the book, you can go through the three rebellions and I give the footnotes

and kind of all the reasons for that. But you have these sons of God that see the

daughters of men. They desire these women and they take them for themselves.

This is what produces these giant beings called the Nephilim, which is kind of

necessitates the flood and all this other stuff. And by the way, exact same phrase

that's used of King David. David sees Bathsheba. He desires Bathsheba.

And so he takes her for himself. And so really spiritual warfare in this context is

about a lot of what is already. What are you seeing? What are you desiring? And in

what ways are you being tempted to take for yourself versus being aware of what God

has given to you or what you have agency over? What is your area of responsibility

that you are to steward? And yet you're being invited to kind of transgress

boundaries in order to take and secure something for yourself that actually was not

given to you in the first place. Okay. So that is such... Great.

Teaching and examples. Because even if we look at that Genesis 3 moment,

when Eve... So it sounds like to me there's at least two things going on, maybe

three, where between agency and the work of the spiritual realm.

So the serpent shows her something that she could take.

Yep. That's sort of what's around us. Or if we apply this to our families, right?

You talked about being a dad. You know your boys. There's all sorts of stuff out

there that's going to allure them to take. The agency is on the taking. We don't

get to say, I don't get to say what Eve did, essentially, which is the serpent

made me do it or the serpent. I mean, I'm saying a lot of things here, but when

I think, let's go to the Genesis 3 story. I've thought a lot about that in the

context of blame shifting. I actually have a devotional coming up on that in the

daily podcast for my listeners. We're going to talk about blame shifting in the

context of Genesis 3, which is Adam says, she made me do it.

She says, the serpent made me do it. God gives consequences to all three of them.

That's right. The serpent gets consequences. Eve gets consequences. Adam. So in a

sense, it's not that technically they were right. You know, Eve presented the option

to Adam, the serpent presented, but they were each responsible for their own choices.

David, same thing, right? He was obviously held accountable for his own choice there

in a very vivid way. And also there was stuff going on around him that was trying

to tempt him. Am I hearing you correctly? A hundred percent. Now let's go back to

the Genesis three because I think the agency piece is so important. Agency is both

about what you do and what of your own volition and kind of moral compass,

ethical understanding you refrain from doing. So I think sometimes we think about

agencies like I've got to do, I've got to do, what can I do? I actually also

think, and you're the psychologist, so you tell me if I'm wrong on this, but I

think that agency also has to do about exercising your ability,

your right to also withdraw and to say I won't participate in this action. 100%.

So here's where I think in Genesis 3 is so fascinating. There's a little detail. In

Genesis chapter 3, that I think is not a throwaway sentence, it says that it was

routine for Yahweh to walk with Adam and Eve in the cool of the evening breeze.

So why the cool of the evening breeze? Because it's the end of the day. Now,

here's the thing. Adam and Eve have... stewardship responsibility there to work the

garden to keep the garden adam specifically we're told he's got a responsibility to

name the animals you know and i don't know about you allison like i am not a uh

walker for fun or a runner for no reason drives me crazy i just i play basketball

on tuesday nights and i can do that kind of running but the thought of just

running like for no like it just drives me crazy but my wife uh we've been here

for 16 years that girl she loves to walk for no reason she loves like that's just

her am, you know? So for 16, I've had to learn that I show my love to my wife

by just going on walks with her. Now, what's fascinating is when we go on a walk,

usually I have an idea of a destination. I'm like, we're going to do a couple laps

and be done because I honestly don't like going on walks. And typically we'll do

that and I'll look at her like, hey babe, are we done? And she'll look back at me

and she'll be like, no. And I'm confused and annoyed. I'm like, we've done what

we're supposed to do. We've done the two laps and we should be done. I'm like,

when are we done? And she'll be like, I don't know. And what's so fascinating about

that is that the aim and the ambition, for me, the goal of the walk is a

destination. But for her, the goal of the walk is not a destination. It's about the

quality of time and the relationship that's being developed from the starting point

to the end point. What's so fascinating about this idea of God walking in the cool

of the evening breeze with Adam and Eve is that that Hebrew word for walk, it has

no destination in mind. It is a leisurely walk. So now we're left wondering,

what would God do with his two children on a walk? Well,

what do you do with your friends on a walk? You talk. You process life. What was

interesting? What was creative? What was challenging? I think sometimes we think of

Eden as perfect. I don't think perfect is the right word for Eden. I know some

people are like, wait a minute, I've always thought about it. Perfection has in mind

completion. Eden is not complete. Eden is the perfect building blocks,

the material in order to get to completion. God sets them up for success, right? So

I always wonder here, when the serpent suggests to Eve and Adam,

who's right with her, hey, why don't you eat of the tree? What would have happened

if Eve exercised her agency, her wisdom, her discernment, her understanding and said,

You know what time it is? You feel that? Serpent, Nakash? It's the cool of the

evening breeze. Why don't we just wait around for God to come? We can ask him this

question. Right? What would have happened? I mean, the serpent's going to run for

its dang life. It's not going to stick around there. And yet this is part of

spiritual warfare. It's part of the deception. It is this sense that we can't be

patient. We can't wait. We've got to take. We've got to have it for ourselves. And

again, deeply rooted in that is distrust. And so when we're thinking about agency,

we're thinking about both. For me, what we do that we should do rightly, but also

what we with holy restraint withdraw from. And we say, like, actually, I'm not going

to participate in that because it's unbecoming of me. It actually diminishes my

dignity as an image bearer of God. Like, I don't want to participate in that. Yeah.

You know?

Yeah. I love that. I love that. I'm working on a project right now, an attachment.

And I love that idea, even with our kids. It's not that they have to go fight the

enemy in what you're saying there. It's almost like a... want to reconnect to what

is good. So I'm going to bow out to connect with my parent or with this healthy

thing that I know is bedrock. We don't always have to have in the moment the

perfect answer or the perfect resistance. It's just something in me, something in my

nervous system is saying, reconnect. before doing anything. And I love that image.

Let me go back to God because that's my source. I love what you're saying about

Eden. I know you've been deeply shaped by N .T. Wright, as I have, and I hear a

lot of that in kind of what he's saying with the new heavens. We will still be

working out our creativity, our vocation, our relationships. It will just be without

this contaminant. Is that... And that's kind of the essence of spiritual warfare is

that contaminant that is constantly trying to derail us. That's absolutely right.

I think it was N .T. Red who once said that sin is essentially undoing our humanity

in such a way that it is leading us into animalistic tendencies. Like sin wants us

to neglect, abdicate. our humanity in order to take up animalistic like desires.

I think this is what things like alcoholism, pornography, you know, even addiction to

things like the gym. Look, I don't know if you've ever thought about this. I've

always been so fascinated about like CrossFit culture and there's something good about

it. But then there's also this obsessiveness about it where I've had people like

they're like, man, I'm just so ugly or I'm so and I'm like. you got like a 12

pack. You're like, you're walking around with like 7 % body fat. Like this is wild

that, you know, and yet there is this. There is this self -perception that has been

deeply compromised because they don't see themselves as what God sees them. And they

think that if I can just achieve this particular look or whatever it might be,

then I can find fulfillment. All of this is spiritual warfare. It is to disconnect

you from the sufficiency of God. I like to talk about it in the context of an

exchange of dependency. It is to pursue self -dependency versus God -dependency. And to

be dependent on God does not abdicate your responsibility. It actually frames your

responsibility. Oh, that's good. Yeah. Yeah, like being dependent on God reminds us

of what we can do, what we can't do, right? It reminds us of what we ought to

do, what we should not do, you know? And back to like the spiritual warfare idea,

I think this is the obsessive nature of it. Sometimes people are like, oh, I gotta

be demon hunters now. We're looking for the demons across, right? Fascinating.

Throughout the New Testament, I mean, you have this one scene where Jesus tells his

disciples to kind of go out and to deal with the demonic reality. But this is very

much prior to the cross. And there's something else that's going on with that story.

After that, you never find any instance of any of the New Testament authors telling

us to be exorcists or to go out and be demon hunters or to go, right? Actually,

it's quite opposite. What the biblical passage and what Jesus himself says in the

Great Commission is, Go make disciples. Yeah. Go make disciples of all nations. Well,

why make disciples? To recover your humanity. To retrieve what it means to be

spiritually whole, emotionally whole, and physically whole. And guess what? When you

do that, you will absolutely encounter dark forces. Like,

you don't need to go after the dark force. This is Ephesians 6. Ephesians 6

presents us as passive participants of a divine action.

The Spirit of God strengthens us so that we might put on the full armor of God.

And to be able to withstand the fiery enemies, the fiery darts of the enemy.

Why? Because we advance the gospel. And as the gospel is advanced, the enemy is

going to absolutely fight back because the enemy hates the good news. Because the

good news is about the restoration of the nations back into the family of God. It

goes back to the household idea. Okay, this is so good. So a couple things I'm

hearing you say that I want to underscore. Number one, we don't have to go looking

for the spiritual warfare. It's everywhere. I mean, and even in, you're saying it in

a couple different ways, I think. Let me see, because the first thought when I was

thinking to myself, we don't have to go looking for it because literally we can

open up our Instagram app and find it. Literally, we can walk into, it's, we don't

have to fixate. And I know what you're saying about CrossFit. You could insert a

million other different things where anything that's pulling us to subtly replace our,

you know, as Augustine and Aquinas talked about, disordered loves, right? Even good

things, when they keep us from ordering our love first with God, are going to pull

us subtly. So it's there. We don't have to focus on it. And then I also...

I want to see if—I think you were kind of alluding to this, Joel, but I want to

see if I'm hearing you correctly. Our most important act of resistance is to align

ourselves with goodness, with truth, with the gospel, with, I think, I would argue

in my field as with healing, so -so, with the work of becoming whole.

Whole. That if I focus on that, sure, a byproduct of that will be, you know,

there will be some—

some members of the spiritual realm that won't be happy, but I am therefore then

aligning myself with God's goodness, God's truth, the spiritual armor. That's my best

and most fruitful act. In the book, you talk about... And I think this is what

we're getting at. You talk about focusing on Jesus's victory as the center versus an

obsession with darkness. And so I think that's some of what I'm hearing in you. The

practical thing we can do if we're worried about the spiritual realm is not to go

looking for it. It's to focus on what is good and focus on Jesus. Am I hearing

you correctly? And how do you talk about that? Yeah, absolutely. I would want to

also bring just some clarifications on what the enemy is and what the enemy isn't.

I think sometimes, you know, there's a famous poet, I think, who said, you know,

the... maybe it's a poet or it's Jim or Jim got this from a poet. I hate messing

up citations and footnotes, but it's from one of those people. The idea is like the

words we use build the worlds that we live in. I think it was a poet. The words

we use build the worlds that we live in. And so I think that we ought to care

deeply about the words that we use to kind of frame our reality. And so one of

the things that happens is we'll say stuff like, well, the enemy made me do it.

Yeah. The devil, like the devil did it or the, right. And I'm like, well, you

know, The enemy, dark forces, are not equivalent in like ontology,

in realness with God. God is the uncreated creator of all things. Everything starts

with God. God created it all. Dark spiritual beings that have gone into rebellion

are created beings, which means that the incommunicable attributes of God, these are

things like his omniscience. He knows all things, his omnipresence, he's in all

places, his omnipotence, he's all powerful, right? Those things are exclusive to God.

So we should not attribute those things to an enemy who is limited and finite.

Do they have deceptive powers? Absolutely. Can they work in spiritual ways?

Absolutely. But they are not on par with the Lord. And so in light of that, I

think we need to be aware of their schemes. They love to work in systems and

structures because they're all about mass -producing sin. They're all about scaling

sinful tendencies. This is Paul's language of the vices of the flesh,

right? And so, like, I think we ought to be serious about these things. I had a

conversation with somebody the other day. And we do these retreats called Haven Place

Retreats at Lisa's house. And they're like healing retreats. And Jim brings therapy.

I bring theology. Lisa brings such great biblical wisdom. And we're having this

conversation with somebody. And they talked about the transition between a single

glass of bourbon at night to becoming full -blown alcoholism.

And it started with a thought. And the thought was, I'm just taking the edge off

of it. It's a stressful day. Right. Like, like I deserve just a single glass of

bourbon until the single glass turned to multiple glasses, which turned into multiple

bottles, which turned into getting into credit card debt in order to get the

bottles, which then turned into full on lying about him, having bottles hidden in

different places, which ultimately led to a deal. I mean, you could go to go into

all these things and it's like, it was a singular thought. Right. And it was even

like, man, you know, is alcohol in and of itself bad, evil? No. Of course not.

But you can take anything that becomes an ultimate thing and that thing will become

an idolatrous thing. And so I think there's two parts to this. One, don't give the

enemy too much power. Don't give them too much ability. And also be very aware of

how the enemy loves to work. The enemy loves to work in systems and structures,

loves to work through neutral things that can become ultimate things in order to

misalign your affections. That's really helpful because I do think, I like that word

scale because I do think in our modern era, I'm sure this was true in different

eras of history, but it's always easiest to think of our own era. It does feel

like that scale word. There are things that almost feel like, man, I think about it

for our kids. I think about when I was growing up, The things that would tempt me

or entice me, they were bad, but there was almost an innocence to them compared to

what we see today. Even if you think about pornography, like you had to go buy a

magazine at a store. It's a little bit harder. There's some more barriers to entry.

It's harder to just get it mainlined into your system. Whereas today, it's just, and

it doesn't remove human. accountability and responsibility. We still have to, but boy,

I have so much compassion for folks. That's such a good way to put it,

that spiritual warfare at work, figuring out how to use systems to sort of make it

just super hard doesn't mean we're not still responsible. We still have to do our

part, but there's... There's a lot in what you're saying there of really, really all

the more needing to remember. First of all, God is ultimately powerful. These systems

will not overtake us. But yeah, they are potentially at the level at which maybe

let's use technology, for example, at the level at which it is scaling good in the

sense of cures for cancer, et cetera, et cetera. It's also scaling evil. Is that?

Yeah. So just a little vulnerable moment. I remember being,

gosh, how old was I? 11 or 12 and i used to ride a bike you know i'm at that

age now allison where they do those fun memes on instagram where it's like you're

this age and it's like blockbuster was around every corner or you told your parents

that you're going on a bike ride but you really like went to abandoned houses and

you probably did like 25 miles on your bike in a matter of four you know four

hours or whatever and it was like the good old days well i remember my kids get

so annoyed with me when i say stuff like that um i remember riding my bike to the

white hen pantry there's live in the chicagoland area there's a white hen pantry and

to your point i remember my first introduction to pornography was actually the family

member but after that it opened my eyes to the curiosity of this thing and i would

go to the white hen pantry and in the back corner they had the magazines but then

it would be like the you know the naughty ones or whatever the bad ones would be

hovered at the top kind of hidden but still there Right. And if you went back

there, you would have the owner of the white hand. If you were back there too far,

he would come. Hey, what are you guys doing? You know? And I remember just thinking

about that of like, there's something about the, even the moral fabric of our

society that recognized for an 11 year old to see that is inappropriate, not good.

That's at least like as a society, let's protect the innocence, you know, to now

it's like, man. none of that nothing like in fact intentional algorithms and ads

that are aimed in all of our spaces in order to compromise innocence of the least

of these you know the youngest in order to cultivate a mind to be prone to it,

you know? And so I think you're absolutely right about that. And again, there's

nothing new underneath the sun. This is why passages like Genesis 6, I think, are

really important. It's like, a lot of times it's like, man, how did evil spread

throughout the world? You know, what necessitated the flood? Well, there's a story in

Second Temple literature in a book called The Book of Enoch. And it's not canon.

It's not like you shouldn't view it that way. But it tells the background story of

the Genesis 6 verses 1 through 4 kind of story. And in it, angelic beings give

wisdom and knowledge. And it's kind of fascinating. Part of it is the cutting of

plants. The Greek word is pharmakeia, which is where we get pharmaceutical from

today. But what's interesting about it is, and you mentioned this already, you can

have the cutting of plants as a really good thing. It can heal wounds. It can be

disinfectant, right? But you can also use the cutting of plants in order to create

ayahuasca, DMT, some inebriative kind of elements in order to compromise your mind.

to intoxicate you, to actually move you away from agency, to make you lose your own

self -agency. And then another one is metallurgy. You know, of all the things that

are taught around this time period, the one thing that I think is fascinating is

that swords have a singular purpose, to kill. Swords have a singular purpose.

And so look at the mass kind of scaling of sin. It's like,

hey, you can take good things or neutral things and you can leverage them in ways

that are 100 % self -destructive. And this is the age -old strategy of the enemy,

but we just are seeing it now in really mass market movements. I want to ask a

practical question to close, but I have to ask you this question. And it's a little

bit of a Pandora's box right here at the end to shift gears a little bit. How do

you see, because I get this question a lot. So I'm going to ask you, I'm going to

take this opportunity. How do you see, we've talked a lot about. spiritual warfare

in the context of things that are like you're saying there there's some good but

also real opportunity for evil i don't think there's any good in pornography but but

right there's yeah there's um but they're that's acting on it pornography is a

perversion of the of the good right right it's a perversion of it so it's like

when did we get to like i can see a woman and say, oh, she's beautiful and move

on to then seeing a woman and saying, oh, that's an object for me to, right? Or

like, and I think that's like, it's a perversion of like, well, no, God wants us

to acknowledge beauty. Like we would eat something good. We would see a beautiful

piece of art, but it doesn't mean you can steal it. It doesn't mean you can take

it, you know? And yet, so I think that, you know, you're onto something with that.

Yeah, so we've got that category, and I want to circle back to that with just

everyday practices, but I want to just touch on this category of how are we to

think about spiritual warfare in the context of illness,

mental illness, and particularly the question I get is, because the field of modern

psychology and psychiatry and even medicine as it exists now is different than how

it was when Jesus walked the earth, how much of some of what he was dealing with

was, I'm going to use poor words here because this is your area of expertise, so

forgive me, I'm fumbling here, but was exclusively spiritual, such as possession,

and how much of it was what we might think of as today a mental illness that is

is biochemical, is biological, is even trauma -related, but we're labeling it

differently. How do you look at that, Joel, kind of both theologically, but also

then we can go to the practical of what's helpful? Yeah, 100%. So I think one of

the challenges that we have at times is we try to read into the Bible things that

the Bible itself or the biblical authors themselves are not keen on answering. Like

for instance, Genesis 1 through 3 is not aimed at answering our scientific questions.

We have a lot of science questions, right? And then we end up trying to force the

biblical text to say things that... They just weren't interested. Actually, Genesis 1

through 11, I like to add 12, it's a polemic. It's an argument against the creation

myths of the time that we're trying to deceive a whole bunch of people. You know,

it's like, no, this is the one true story. And so I would just give us a little

bit of a word of caution of like looking at the biblical passages in the New

Testament particularly and trying to create. A clear A plus B always equals C.

I love it. And so one of the things that Jesus does, actually, Jesus, in the

Gospel of Luke, he says it this way. He says, if by the hand of God demons are

cast out, then you know that the kingdom of God has arrived. Well, guess what Jesus

does? He's casting out demons. Why? Because the Gospels are all about reminding us

that the point of the incarnation is where the kingdom of God begins to come back,

right? It's the renewal. It's the restoration. It's new heavens and new earth. So

you have that part of it. And in it, I think there's some principles that we can

draw out, particularly with Jesus' interaction with demon exorcism, with the sick,

with those that have ailment. One, there's this one famous story.

It's like, hey, this individual, did their parents sin? Is this why? And Jesus is

like, no, none of that. It's so that the glory of God might be shown and then

heals the person. So I think we have to be careful of trying to... read into

things, read into the biblical text, something that's not there. Science is really

beautiful and it's really amazing. And a lot of times it actually affirms to us so

much of what in ancient people were struggling to make sense of. So once again,

can you have the presence of both demonic oppression and in the case of non

-believers possession? Absolutely. And do you have the presence of frail?

human bodies and sin that has actually messed up our brain neurology to create

actual disorders like schizophrenia or legitimate NPD,

narcissistic personality disorder, things like that? Absolutely. Should we view it as

a one -for -one every time that a person who's maybe... diagnosed with a mental

health illness that we then have to demand that there is some spiritual influence or

some demonic i would be like that's both unwise and unhelpful yeah you know now i

would do some diagnostics though along the way has the person opened themselves up

to um uh, windows of demonic activity, whether it's, uh, it'd be Wiccan practices or

Ouija boards. I mean, there's all kinds of things that you would want to look at

and say, Hey, is, could there be the presence of that? And it's like, well, okay,

great. You'd want to deal with those things and have a both and approach to it.

Like we would want the best medical help, um, that. God has given us in common

grace in order to deal with neurological imbalances. And we want to submit that

thing to prayer. Because while all human physicians are limited at some point with

their knowledge... The physician, the great physician, Jesus, is unlimited in his

ability. And it's not up to us to determine if he acts or if he doesn't.

It's up to us to pray and to trust the Lord in his decision -making with that.

And so people might be like, well, that feels like a circular answer. You're kind

of like saying yes and no. I'm like, yeah, I kind of am. And I think this is

part of the mystery. This is part of the human mind that wants just perfect

answers. And like I said, I think there is some diagnostics that you would want to

do with what you've opened yourself up to. I think there's paths to demonic

oppression. And oftentimes it is pornography. It is alcoholism. It is opioid

addictions. 1 Peter 5 .8 says, be sober -minded. That Greek word sober -minded has an

antonym, the opposite of that word. It's a well -known Greek word that was used in

the temples in the Greco -Roman world, the temple of Delphi, the oracles.

They would use plants and hallucinatives in order to intoxicate the mind,

which I think is fascinating. Where Peter's like, by the way, don't be like that.

Be sober -minded. Have sobriety of mind that you might rightly know who God is. And

so we'd want to be careful of those things. I appreciate that. By the way, I think

Jesus often answered questions very similarly to how you are, right, refusing the

false dichotomy. And what I hear and what you're saying is both and. And I love

the word diagnostic because I think about that way as a clinician. You know, if I

think about the diagnostic manual, right, with all the diagnostic criteria, I do

think, I mean, it's not right now because we have this bifurcation between the

spiritual and the scientific in our medical model. But I think if we were to

integrate them, which you and I are both hands of, you would have a diagnostic

category for, you know, and it could be a combination. It could be nothing to do

with anything spiritual. It's just a, you know, or there could be, and for what

it's worth, for those of you listening and just for your curiosity, Joel, it's

interesting. I'm trained in a model of therapy that is part of why I wrote

Boundaries for Your Soul. Kim and I integrated it with the Christian theology is

that it's a very spiritual model that is not Christian. And in that model, early on

in my training, I think they've changed this, but they accounted for what they

called unattached burdens, which are, you know, in the model, you're trying to find

the part of yourself that's wounded or broken or hurting and connect with that part

and heal that part. And in our adaptation of it, we invite... God to be with that

part, right? And there's a lot of neurobiology for this that is very, you know,

you're actually kind of, the body keeps the discourse of you're actually finding the

place in your body that's still embedded in your embodied world that maybe from

childhood that still lives there through memory and through consciousness and you're

actually kind of finding it. It's very profound and it works. But in this protocol,

apart from the Christian, the secular version of this, there is this idea that

sometimes you bump into a part that is not of you. Yeah. And I'm like,

and oftentimes they would say in those early trainings, they're called unattached

burdens, that these come in through things that you just named. They can come in

through ritual abuse. They can come in through, again, it's not your fault,

especially if you're the victim, right, in those cases. But there might have been

some exposure. It can come in through things we expose ourselves to. And they're

usually some of those big T traumatic things that just kind of...

is something going on there spiritually that evil, you know, and we're just naive to

not consider that in our own walks. Even to this day,

oftentimes, if I'm going through a hard time, I err. I think the psychologist in me

errs toward what's concrete, what's real, what can I see? But if I'm going through

a hard struggle or someone in my family is kind of running the diagnostic Rolodex,

I wonder what this is. Is this... They're not sleeping well. Is this, we're not

getting the right, you know, have I eaten horribly the last couple of weeks? Is

this something I'm not taking?

And is there something spiritual going on? That has nothing to do with us. We're

not doing anything. This isn't sin. This isn't, or this isn't, I'm, there's something

going on here. That is a diagnostic category that is important to consider. That's

my two cents on that. I want to, I guess now I want to flip it to you.

What are a few? simple, not kind of hokey, but biblical ways to engage spiritual

warfare, especially for people who don't lead us into either extreme of being overly

obsessed with it, but also not discounting it. What are some practical things we can

do? What do you do in your own family? How do we engage in a way that is not

naive, to use Jesus' words, where we're shrewd as a serpent, right? We're not naive,

but also innocent. Yeah, you know, I would just go back to that very first question

that you asked, Allison, of what is spiritual warfare? And it's this desire for God

to have his family back together. And so I would want to frame it in that way of

like, what are the things that we do? Well, I think Paul gives it to us in

Galatians chapter 5. And often I think we think of, I like to break it up into

what's normal. and non -normative and the non -normative things get the most highlight

reels, right? It's the demon exorcisms. It's the big, massive, you know, and power

encounters or deliverance ministries. And while I wouldn't say that those are wrong

by any means, I think that those are non -normative. Well, what is normative? Here

are the things that are normative. Galatians chapter five, the fruit of the spirit.

Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self -control. By the

way, we live in a world that does not want to buy into the beauty of the fruit

of the Spirit. They want to buy into the vices of the flesh. And there's a real

enemy who's, again, working in systems and structures in order to move us away from

the beauty of the kingdom of God into really the chaos of the kingdom of the world

and loves to use selfish ambition, vain conceit, all these things in order to

perpetuate that. And so a very practical thing that you and I get to do. is to

practice and cultivate the fruit of the Spirit in our lives, in our family, with

our loved ones, you know? I mean, so practical, but like on the road when somebody

cuts you off and you want to lose your mind, right? And like reminding yourself in

that moment, like I don't have to be led by my emotion. I'm feeling something, but

that feeling can be an indication that I got to return this feeling and this

emotion back to the foot of the cross, back to the Lord so that the Lord can

sanctify me and I can respond appropriately. And so I would just say, you know,

like the fruit of the spirit. And by the way, that is a winsome witness to the

world of the truth of who Jesus is. And when we get to participate in that,

and this is that whole. idea of communicating the truth of the gospel, both with

our words and with our works, this is all part of spiritual warfare. Our family

has, just the last year, we wrote up a family covenant, like, hey,

what do we believe as a family? Like, what do we stand for, you know? And where

in the Bible does it prove these things? Because we want to be like... say we're

Christians. We say we follow King Jesus. And so what does Jesus tell us to follow

these things out? And so it's like, hey, we're a family that's committed to the

Bible. We want to read the Bible together. We're committed to prayer. We're committed

to the fruit of the Spirit. We're committed to loving each other. We're committed to

forgiveness. We're going to forgive as quickly as we possibly can. We're committed to

our health. We want to be good stewards of the bodies that God has given us. And

so all of these things, I mean, some people are like, wait, I was not expecting

that at all for a conversation on spiritual warfare. And I'd be like, and that's

exactly why. Because the enemy wants you to not be thinking about any of that. But

a compromise spiritually, emotionally, and physically are perfect entry points for the

enemy to then snatch you up. I think often about Genesis 4,

Cain and Abel, and the Lord tells Cain, sin is crouching. At the door,

it's waiting to devour you. And I think about this enemy. This enemy is so patient

and so willing to wait for the perfect opportunity. And then the Lord says to Cain,

by the way, you must rule over it. You know, and there's a way out for this.

And so I think that that's why active participation in the fruit of the spirit,

in living out the truth of the gospel, and just like prayer, fasting,

loving Jesus, being a part of a community of faith, taking care of your mental

health, going to therapy, like using God's common grace given to us.

These are all acts of spiritual warfare because it's recovering holiness. That's a

word. That's great. Thank you. I love that. I love the, that's what we... can

control and it's good and it's powerful and it's not nothing. It's deep and true

and good. Tell us where, tell my listeners where they can find you and you're so

helpful online and this is a great book and you've got another book. Tell us a

little bit about where to find you and all that you're doing. Yeah. So I do a

bunch of my kind of conversations and stuff on Instagram. So it's just my last name

at Mudamali, M -U -D -D -A -M -A -L -L -E. Not many of us out there, so it should pop

up pretty quick. And then I do a lot. of my writing on Substack.

It's just called Humble Theology. If you look that up, that's a great place. The

book is available wherever books are sold. It's on discount right now on Amazon. And

then my first book I wrote is a book on humility. It's called The Hidden Peace.

And so I actually think these two books go really well together, you know,

cultivating humility, which is so necessary for the spiritual war that we find

ourselves in. And then if you are interested in like strange, weird, things about

the Bible. You're more interested about the Nephilim stuff and the sons of God.

We've got a podcast. podcast friend of ours, mine, Blurry Creatures and I,

we created a subset called Stranger Theology. And so Stranger Theology is like a

place to get like grounded theological scholarship and writing. But we talk about

weird stuff in the Bible. Like why in the world is Balaam's, you know, donkey? Like

what is going on with that? And is there a point to these stories? I love that. I

love that you have that outlet. Did you ever read the Madeline L 'Engle book called

Many Waters? No, I haven't. Do you know her work? Yeah. A little bit,

she's different, but some of her stuff kind of imaginative stuff. It's like science

fiction, but it's a little like Narnia. There's like spiritual undertones. And that

one is about the Nephilim. And I read it as a kid, and it just brought to life

that period of time that we don't often hear about, but it's part of the big story

that we always hear about. So she piqued my curiosity, so I love it that you're

bringing that up. You're bringing it back. Yeah, I am. Absolutely. Thanks for your

time, Joel. We went over today, but it's just so fascinating, so rich, and I so

appreciate you. Always. Appreciate you. Thank you for joining me for this week's

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